Monday, March 30, 2009

Thankful for our Nurse

The weekend was good and Emily is still off the oxygen. She started new seizure medicine, Banzel, on Saturday. We're praying that it will help. This morning she had a seizure first thing. It wasn't as difficult as some of them are, but it lasted just as long. I can hear the oxcymeter going off... The nurse is here today and so I can relax and let her do the tending.

It was difficult, at first, to let a nurse come into my home and help me with Emily. Trust is a huge issue. There are nurses, and then there are Nurses. We've had a few very good nurses in the last 4 years, and a handful of very, humm, what's the word for nurses that just don't have a clue? Yes folks, they are out there. Maybe they got through the bookwork and got a license, but it takes someone special to understand the caregiving needs of a fragile child. There doesn't seem to be very many of them out there, OR they all work for the employers who can pay the highest wages (which isn't a home care agency or Medicaid client).

I have to say though that I am SO very thankful for our nurse. Even with part-time care this person takes the pressure off of me, at least for a while, and helps our family keep some semblance of normalcy. I'm not sure when "Be thankful for your nurse day" is, but I shall look it up and make sure our nurse gets a nice Thank-you card that day. If there's not a special day for nurses, I'll make one up.

1 comments:

Luke's Mom said...

I can totally relate to this post. We had nurses for the first year after Luke's accident, while he had a trache and a little after it was out. We were blessed to have 3 nurses that we could depend on and trust, though it took us quite awhile to get there. I remember the first nurse that came didn't know how to change a trache and of course it came out the first day she was on duty, do you think I let her go near Luke again after that, no way. I'm glad to hear that you have a good one.

I too was shocked at the snow the other night. I just looked at the temps the next few days and it is supposed to be in the 30's everyday this week. I'm so ready for the sunshine.

Suzi